Very little in life is really all or nothing, black or white. Turns out there are many shades of grey.
Success is never black or white. Success is always grey, many shades of grey.
Health is never black or white. Health lives on a continuum.
You are with me or you are against me. Not really. We are too complex for that. I can partially agree with you, turns out.
Death, now that might be black and white. Except I could find those would argue that death is yet one stage of the journey. Onward.